hey guys...

I'm so early for my tuition..so i decided to write sthg although there is nothing much happening in my life except drowning in my school work...basically, i got 3 more reports and 2 more presentations to go till 9 apr...

glad a stupid project is over...the subj is not stupid...but a person is soooo irritating tat i felt like walking away from e meetings halfway lots of time..and i did blew my top once...i'm so glad the singapore guys go for ns cos i really think they become super more mature when they are outside...

these r some of e irritating things i can't stand to the core abt a particular grp member..

During the first presentation..
1) he scolded a guy for not putting in enuf effort when the guy was the one who thought of the creative part of the presentation
2) he scolded me and all the gals for not picking up our phone although we explained that we were in the toilet and our phone was not with us (he didn't even say thank you after i helped him with sthg..all i got was the pissed off face)

During the 2nd presentation and report writing..
1) using the 4 letter word and other vulgarities in every other sentences
2) Ogle at each girl who walk past...and he had the cheek to say the rest are not serious in the report and threaten to kick us out of the grp..when he hardly let me talk 2 sentences b4 he get distracted and nudge e other guy to look at gals...(in actual fact, i felt like kicking him out of the grp..and i'm sure a few others do too cos we were grumbling like crazy on our way home)
3) Talk abt girls' body in from of me..calling them hippos and stuff..even tho it's not directed to me, i felt really pissed that they call those gals hippos..and i felt really uncomfortable when they go to the details...(some of them are my frens!!!) No wonder gals are turning bulimic and anorexic..
4) When he is wrong, he scold us for not telling him from the start (when 5 other ppl had no misconception). When we dunno wat he is talking, he flare up when we ask for clarification cos he think we do not read enuf. When we dun ask so tat he dun flare up, he scold us for not paying attention. (MCP!!)
5) He had the cheek to ask my grpmate not to return home (in msia) over the weekend and some of us to cancel our other plans. In actual fact, we have done our part and he was the only one who have not finished his part. When he suggested a meeting, the gals unite to ask him the agenda..and guess what..do report which we have completed (it means we supposed to meet to watch him do work...) How selfish!! (but at least the gals win this time:))
6) My partner and i followed his instructions on how he wants the report to be...Then, suddenly, a day b4 the submission, he wanted to change the whole thing..when we've spent so long on it..it was e first time i had to argue so much..my partner face was really red after tat..
7) When i had to go home cos i got another presentation to complete by the nxt day, he gave me the pissed off face...(i've completed my part by then and he had given his 'approval'). In e nite, my partner told me she had to continue to argue like crazy after i left cos he insist on deleting 2 whole section of wat she and i have written..the others also just dun get y he wanted to delete it away...
8) He scolded my gd fren for not doing her part to perfection..and i cld tell she was abt to flare up..(he dunno the meaning of subtle and using a soft tone..he'll tell everything in an angry tone)..but wat my fren said is right..if she knows how to do it, she wld have done it from the beginning, not wait till last min..then he started scolding her...even if he's smart, it doesn't mean he can treat us like tat ok...
9) He scolded me when i asked him to let me think through my thoughts first b4 telling him abt my decision...he wanted me to think it out with him...(when i know he'll interupt me and not let me think thought properly if i were to do tat..and of course, i wld be interuppted when any girl walk past)..wat's wrong in organising my thoughts before sharing it...rather than making me jump from point to point without making much sense...

Lesson learnt from my worst project exp (even e proj when i had ppl mia-ing dun match this proj)....
1)if u see him in ur tutorial or seminar grp nxt time, sit far far away so tat u reduce the likelihood of having to work with him...i phobia of him already...
2) ways of controlling anger and preserving patience

haha...so glad this thing is over...and my other groups are nice ppl..irony of irony...3 ppl from this grp are in my other grps and we never quarrel b4..this is just a venting my frustrations post...once again, i support ns...the guys are much easier to get along after that..

See u guys soon..meanwhile, study hard..

weirda

♥Bid Farewell